The first time my pen pal suggested I create a vision board, I didn’t see the point. The idea of visualization was lost on me.
To be fair, I was in a completely different mental space and was so unhappy with the way my life was going. Yet, I didn’t think a vision board was for me. Can you believe that?
That is until I came to New York City a couple of years ago for a vision board party.
That day, everything changed for me. It was the same day I made the decision to move to the area. And that was in large part because of the women at the party.
Up until that point, I had never seen so many women grounded in their beliefs. They each had such confidence that they would change their lives. And I envied that in the best possible way.
Now, I look forward to clipping through old magazines. In fact, it is one of my favorite to-dos during the holiday season. The has changed over the years, but the goal remains: to become a woman who is firm in her convictions.
With that said, here are the five most important phrases on my vision board:
Truth
This year, my resolution is to stand in my truth; to own my stories without shame or embarrassment. I plan on leading with the truth on this blog and in life. If I’m being honest, I don’t know how it’s going to go. One thing’s for sure is, it’s time.
Be the Voice for Those Who Have No Voice
My entire life, all I ever wanted to do was write. The journey has NOT been easy. I’ve doubted myself so many times.
Then, on my last vacation, a college friend poured into my hopes and dreams so much, it gave me the courage to try again. Without knowing, she assured me that my biggest fear that my art didn’t mean anything was incorrect. She told me and a group of old and new friends, that she she awaits my blog posts spoke to stories in her own life. Ever since that conversation, I realized that my stories aren’t just for me. They’re so much bigger than me and should be used to connect women, which is exciting.
Break the Pain Cycle
In my previous blog post, I wrote about the side effects of a very painful year. That’s not special to me. We’re all carrying around some form of pain. Through my writing, I’m healing old wounds. I hope it gives others the courage to work towards healing their scars, too.
Strong + Well
I don’t know about you, but I define myself by my strength. In 2018, it became somewhat of an issue because it was my armor. It became a defense mechanism and though I was putting on a brave face, that’s all it was.
When I look back on it, I should have taken much better care of myself. And I definitely should have drank less wine. So, this year, I want my strength to mean more. I want it to be in balance with my health not impede it.
Stop & Gaze
This is a reminder to be open to everything that life has to offer. Not long ago, I was so focused on the destination that I never appreciated the journey.
This year, I will slow down. What’s more, I’ll stop and gaze.
